Here are some things you should know before dating an older man.
- The first and most important step is for both of you to recognize that there is an age difference and be willing to accept it. Nothing will change the fact that you have different levels of experience and maturity. Both parties should appreciate the difference for what it brings rather than fight it.
- It is your responsibility, both of you, to be aware of the gap and to make an effort to appreciate it. As a younger girl dating an older man, you may feel as if he doesn’t value your opinion. That could be true, but more often than not, it’s just that he’s lived through whatever issue you’re discussing and has far more experience with it than you do. Please don’t take it personally. Instead of arguing, try to use the opportunity to learn something.
- You could look at your current situation as an opportunity to hone your ability to be deceptive and dignified. Intimacy with this guy should be simmered for a much longer period of time than you have ever experienced before. Honestly? If there was ever a good reason to postpone sexual relations until after marriage, you’re living it right now.
- Be prepared for judgment and criticism as well, especially if the age gap is obvious. It’s okay if not everyone understands or accepts your relationship. People will, however, make comments about it. People will look.
- Above all, communication is essential in all relationships. You must be able to communicate effectively with one another. When you first have an argument and realize it could have gone better, be open to going to counseling together and getting an outside perspective, as well as picking up some tools to help you build a more solid foundation.
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