After his two wives broke up with him, Mr. Ibu told the Punch in a new interview how he had to figure out how to be a father.
This makes a big difference when you are younger and single and when you start having kids. It is even bigger when you get married. When you have babies, you become a man, and when you become a man, you think big.
Some things I wouldn’t have done because I’m the head of my family, and family comes first. That’s not all: My children look up to and learn from me.
Show them that I’m responsible so that they can be proud of how I act and who I am. God told you to look after them and care for them, and that’s what I do. You become more responsible when you become a father.
Some of the fathers we have are responsible, and some of them aren’t very responsible or careful. When I first became a father, I was a careless father. With God’s help, I was able to go back and rebuild myself, and now I am a responsible father.
Is a man someone who doesn’t care about his kids, who has no feelings or passion for building a home? That person is not a man. This is what the Bible says. The way I have done this is by providing for my family and making sure they never go hungry. You need to have faith in yourself.
As a father, you learn new things every day. I don’t miss any chances to learn, and this makes me a better parent. When I tried to build a home, there were some ups and downs. I have people who learn from me, and I teach them how to build a home.
People left me after I had a child with each of them. My first and second marriages didn’t work out, either. Why did they make these decisions? They told me that it was because I didn’t have money, which made sense to me. As a result of this, I now know that I need to be able to keep my family together and make sure they are happy and don’t have any reason to look down on me.
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